Most women dream about their wedding day from the moment they are young girls, consider beautiful flowers and beautiful dresses with a superb cake at the reception. They can only see walking down the aisle for their prince charming, feeling like Cinderella at the ball. All their hard work bears fruit, and they have their Mr. Right. They think their work is done. When actually, is just beginning!
You've probably heard before, "Marriage takes work!" But people do not tell you that it is more than just be patient with him when he leaves one that I did not-want-to-take-another corner pot of jelly in the pot or the fact he prefers his roll of toilet paper on the position of Assistant. That adjustment you make when you take off the fairy tale glasses and see your marriage in the light of the ever-hood. We hope these tips will help you in your new life as husband and wife.
After the joy comes the test!
It usually does not dawn on you while you're toasting glasses of champagne after the wedding that never can be a very long time, and your marriage must stand the test of time. Of course, there will be a day when you look over your not so new husband and say: "Is this what I signed?" You have understood that the honeymoon is over. But it when you dig deep and determined push to recognize the joys that appear in the middle of stuff everyday. Remember, marriage is not a destination but a journey filled with engagement with a little good and Poor little balance over time.
Never dispel-Go-To-Bed-Angry Theory
Let's face it! Although the old adage is true in most cases, there will be times when an issue can not be solved in a day. You can simply go to bed angry, disappointed or upset once or twice, but always be with love. Remember, just because you May not like what a person does not mean that you do not love. In addition, the review something when you are boiling mad just because it's bedtime may make you say something you'll regret. From sleep after a brief kiss or "I love you" in spite of what happened may speak volumes about your love flawless. Try to calm down, focus on love and work after you've had some time to think through. (But do not take too long. You do not want things to fester.)
Welcome to the grey zone
Many of us tend to see things in black and white. Everything is either cut and dry or good and evil. However, those who have lived a life of love someone else will tell you that things are generally not in this way, and right is not always better. Coming to this realization, you have now entered the "grey zone", a place of compromise, understanding and "see things their way" live. Get your path is generally not as important as finding a way to work together.
Marriage is a wonderful union blessed that life brings satisfaction and joy. Although it seems May as there are times when things do not go quite as planned, remember that there will be a lot of moments where things are better than you could have ever imagined. Marriage May you have given your fairy tale, but the marriage gives you your dream.
You've probably heard before, "Marriage takes work!" But people do not tell you that it is more than just be patient with him when he leaves one that I did not-want-to-take-another corner pot of jelly in the pot or the fact he prefers his roll of toilet paper on the position of Assistant. That adjustment you make when you take off the fairy tale glasses and see your marriage in the light of the ever-hood. We hope these tips will help you in your new life as husband and wife.
After the joy comes the test!
It usually does not dawn on you while you're toasting glasses of champagne after the wedding that never can be a very long time, and your marriage must stand the test of time. Of course, there will be a day when you look over your not so new husband and say: "Is this what I signed?" You have understood that the honeymoon is over. But it when you dig deep and determined push to recognize the joys that appear in the middle of stuff everyday. Remember, marriage is not a destination but a journey filled with engagement with a little good and Poor little balance over time.
Never dispel-Go-To-Bed-Angry Theory
Let's face it! Although the old adage is true in most cases, there will be times when an issue can not be solved in a day. You can simply go to bed angry, disappointed or upset once or twice, but always be with love. Remember, just because you May not like what a person does not mean that you do not love. In addition, the review something when you are boiling mad just because it's bedtime may make you say something you'll regret. From sleep after a brief kiss or "I love you" in spite of what happened may speak volumes about your love flawless. Try to calm down, focus on love and work after you've had some time to think through. (But do not take too long. You do not want things to fester.)
Welcome to the grey zone
Many of us tend to see things in black and white. Everything is either cut and dry or good and evil. However, those who have lived a life of love someone else will tell you that things are generally not in this way, and right is not always better. Coming to this realization, you have now entered the "grey zone", a place of compromise, understanding and "see things their way" live. Get your path is generally not as important as finding a way to work together.
Marriage is a wonderful union blessed that life brings satisfaction and joy. Although it seems May as there are times when things do not go quite as planned, remember that there will be a lot of moments where things are better than you could have ever imagined. Marriage May you have given your fairy tale, but the marriage gives you your dream.
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